America VS Ireland

American & Irish Flag Overlap

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Delighted to say this post has been selected as the ‘Featured Blogger’ post of the week in the DreamTeam Linky 22.10.18 by Kirsty from Navigating Baby.

Thanks a million Kirsty. So happy you liked it.

Differences in Terminology, Behaviour & Real Life – The Gospel according to the Stented Wan.

They say size isn’t important (emmm, many men & women may argue with that one hummm!) but in America, holy shit does size matter! Everything – and I do mean everything – is feckin HUGE.

For those of you who didn’t know or follow me on Instagram, we’re back home in Dublin after spending the last 6 weeks of summer in various parts of California & Oregon (which I’m writing about in a separate post).

San Fran / Oakland City / North Tahoe / Squaw Valley / Portland. Jesus, it was amazing. Absolutely amazing and I loved every second of it. In fact, I’d go back tomorrow in a heartbeat if given the chance.

That said, there are aspects of America / Americans / American culture that made me raise an eyebrow or two that’s for sure. I’m sure it happens in reverse too so it’s not that I’m saying ‘Our shit don’t stink‘ –  it’s just……well, different shit.

So let’s just kick the elephant in the room one swift kick to the goolies (em, I mean ‘sack‘ for my new American friends!)

How in fucks name can we speak the same language (supposedly) yet there is such a huge difference in how we speak, the words/spellings we use and our understanding of them?!!!

It’s not the accent – maybe!

I found I had to change so many words to be understood it’s not even funny. I’m not even talking about something that sounds ridiculous different. For example….

  • Good morning Sir, how are you? What can I get you today?
  • Hey, I’m great thanks. So I’ll have the poached eggs, toast & tomatoes please
  • ‘I’m sorry SIR – the eggs, toast and what?’
  • Tomatoes
  • *shake of their head …. as if I said a completely different word altogether*
  • Ta-may-toe‘ …… I go thinking ‘Seriously?
  • OK, thank you Sir. And would you like pepper jack, sour cream, jalapeno or ‘ta-may-toe‘ salsa with that?!
  • Just some brown sauce??
  • I’m sorry Sir, I don’t know what that is. We have pepper jack, sour cream, jalapeno or ‘ta-may-toe’ salsa. Which one would you like?
  • ……Oh dear !!!!

Irish SarcasmVS in Ireland…

  • Hey man. I’ll have the full Irish yeah. Beans, mushrooms, pudding …. the lot.
  • Tea or coffee?
  • Tea
  • Toast?
  • Yep, white.
  • Nice one.
  • Done.
Every american is irish!

I shit you not my friends – literally every person from America we had the pleasure of chatting with said they were ‘Irish‘!! I was thinking – ‘No you’re not! I’m Irish. You’re American!!!’ But that’s not what they say. Not one of them said ‘I’m American, from California or Oregon etc’.

Instead, the folks we spoke with always replied with something like ‘Oh, I’m Irish. I’m also part Dutch, part Scottish & part Australian!‘  The gas thing is they were born and raised in America, fly an American flag proudly outside their house, have an American passport and for the most part, they’ve never been to Ireland (or know where their Great Great Grandfather comes from in Ireland or wherever else they say they come from). Obviously I’m not painting every American with the same brush here, I’m specifically talking about the people we met. Absolutely bananas & so funny!!

No Irish person would ever say anything like that. Irrespective of where their Great Great Granny originally came from. I’m from Longford Town, Ireland and always will be, end of.

the charm of the irish!

The highlight of saying I was from Ireland happened when we were in a beautiful small town called ‘Trukee‘. I badly needed a hair cut and I found a barbers there online. There was brilliant banter between the two barbers and their customers which I sucked up like a sponge while waiting my turn.

When in the chair, I love a good chat with the barber so I started burning the ears off him who’s name was Russ – which was ironic because most Americans replied Russ to me when I told them my name was Ross. Tomato / Ta-May-Toe all over again.

I'm Totally IrishSo we had a great yap along with the waiting customers. Turns out Russ’s wife was half Irish & he was half Scottish (see paragraph above!!).

When they came to Ireland he told me how much the people of Ireland looked after them so well and that he’d never forget it.

Jokingly I replied ‘on behalf of the entire population of Ireland, you are most welcome‘! This and the fact that they couldn’t get enough of me & my accent really worked in my favour as when I was finished, I got up to pay to which Russ replied ‘You’re good to go my friend, your money is no good here. I told you Ireland looked after me & my wife and I’ll never forget that‘. The man wouldn’t even take a tip off me. How sound is that? Absolute gent. The charm of the Irish ha?!!!

The differences

I’ve a few mates living in the U.S. for years. Mick lives in New York City for the last 15 yrs. While I didn’t get to meet him, we were chatting on FB Messenger. I asked him for his take of some of the differences between Americans & Irish to add to the ones I’d picked up on.

Man his email made me laugh out loud. I’ve taken the best bits and added in some of my own observations which I think will give you guys a giggle. Check them out below. Comments at the bottom please !!!!

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I could list a shit load more but I think this gives a good jist of the differences, most of which I find very funny. Let me know what you think below.

Agh America – such a brilliant & bat shit crazy place in equal measure. But I genuinely can’t wait to go back. Thanks for having us. U-S-A … U-S-A … U-S-A 🙂

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16 Comments Add yours

    1. Featured Blogger?!! Well thank your very much Kirsty for picking my post. Delighted you liked it so much. Happy Days!! #Dreamteam

  1. Kirsty says:

    It once took me a full ten minutes to order a glass of water in the states as they just couldn’t understand my English accent: warter as opposed to their wata
    Loved this you made me laugh. Thanks for sharing with the #DreamTeam

    1. Hehehehehe!! Well having been there this summer I can well believe it!!!! In fact, I can see it playing out in my mind!!! Very funny. Thanks Kristy. Delighted you loved it and laughed. Chat soon, Ross #Dreamteam

  2. Glad you enjoyed your time over here. One of the things about America is that there are so many different regions that sometimes just driving for half a day will get you somewhere where half the people don’t seem to speak the same language. I think its weird as well that so few people view being American as their heritage. Young country made up of immigrants I suppose, something that some around here could do to be reminded of #thatfridaylinky

    1. Hey Jeremy. Agh we had a blast in the States. There so much to do and see it’s bananas. Brilliant when you’ve got the nips with you cause they never got bored and were tired at the end of the day from being out doing stuff for most of the day. Yeah I think you have a point about being seeing America as their heritage. Never forget where you / your family originally come from for sure but for me, if you’re born & raised in America (say Tahoe for example) – even thought your Grandfather was from Ireland, to me then you’re 100% American. Yes you have Irish background but you’re American first and foremost. Such a proud nation which is evident by the amount of US Flags flying from houses to RV’s to skyscrapers. I seriously can’t wait to go back whenever that may be. Thanks for commenting man, cheers, Ross. #ThatFridayLinky

  3. Debbie says:

    Hi Ross, it sounds like you had a right old time in the US. and I bet they’re still talking about it. Don’t you love it when wit and sarcasm go overheads? The terminology sounds totally different. I’m never going to be able to use a Handy Andy again… It sounds a little like South Africa where they are all either English or Dutch… No, they aren’t are South African!

    Thank you for linking up with #keepingitreal.

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    1. Absolutely loved every second of being there Debs. The US has everything Ireland &/or the UK more or less yet it’s so different at the same time. It’s one of the (many) things that makes it so unique I guess. The nips loved it. Nip 2 is a bit young to completely grasp it but Nip 1 defo did. “Handy Andy” hahahahaha – I’m killed him for you right?!!!! Is South Africa like that too? I’ve never been but much like America, it’s a nation made up of immigrants too. Thanks for commenting Debs. Cheers, Ross. #keepingitreal

  4. Jaki says:

    Really made me giggle. It looked like you were having a blast over there! Thanks for sharing this with #TriumphantTales.

    1. I’m delighted you got a giggle and saw the funny side of it Jaki. Happy days! We loved every second of it. Can’t wait to go back over whenever that may be!! Thanks for reading/commenting. Chat soon, Ross #TriumphantTales

  5. Anne says:

    my comment vanished ?? Maybe you got it, but if you didn’t, I thought this post was great 🙂

    1. Hey Anne. It did?! I’m not sure why but apologies if it did. But this comment came through OK so I just wanted to say thank your for reading and for thinking it’s a great post! Happy days I’m delighted you’ve liked it. Thanks a million, Ross

  6. Suzy Stanton says:

    Hilarious! Great post. I’m ashamed to say I’ve never been to Ireland so I need to get that sorted #ThatFridayLinky

    1. Agh thank you Suzy!! Delighted you liked it. It was an amazing holiday. You’ve never been to Ireland?! Holy Moly you need to sort that out missus – you’ll have a blast. Thanks a million for reading & commenting. Chat soon, Ross #ThatFridayLinky

  7. Really made me chuckle man. Great post.

    1. Cheers Benny! Glad you got a giggle from it man. America – ‘thiz’ a great & strange land that’s for sure !!!!

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